Sunday, October 1, 2017

Standby yourself

It is difficult to standby oneself. We tend to trust others more than ourselves, at least it is true for me. Standing by your-self is just like standing by anybody else. Stay with yourself in good as well as bad situations. Easier said than done, as we tend to expand our ego when we do something good, and shrink our inner self when some mistake happens by ourselves. I am very critical about my-self, I scold myself a great deal even for a small mistake I have done, I tell to myself what the hell were you thinking, why you did not do it the right way, what is wrong with you.

I have learnt to reduce this tendency and be less critical about myself. Instead, I will standby myself, talk to myself, take the lessons learnt and improve on it the next time.

Whatever you say, your own self is your best friend. He is the one you are going to live with in this life. Do not let him down.