Often times, I feel used. I tried to analyze that, why is that it happens? How people sometimes use me out of proportion, and I could not do anything?
At least for me, it happens because of not saying clear NO in the beginning itself. The moment somebody puts an out-of-the-way request, I sometime do not say NO and try to avoid the situation somehow, by giving excuses etc. The other guy finds the solution to those excuses, and then I am not able to say NO because my reason for saying NO has been eliminated, the guy has overcome the issues, and I am feeling helpless and used in this situation.
The learning for me is to say PLAIN NO, in the beginning itself, if you think you cannot do what the other person is requesting. Please for God sake, have courage and say NO.
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